Quote: BTW: I wish my H would be more willing to initiate without a raging hard-on. This would eliminate his need for the porn "crutch". IMO it's much more intimate to become aroused together anyways.
Do you think that your H is afraid that if he doesn't start out a sexual encounter fully aroused that he won't get aroused? Does he have the ability to relax and let his arousal happen as it will? What if, even given his and your best efforts, arousal just doesn't happen?
I know these questions are directed toward a comment JJ made, but please feel free to comment if these are revelent questions to your sitch.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
