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I would be very excited if he pressed into me and I felt his hardness against me,


And therein lies the difference in HDW and LDW. What you, the HDW, perceive to be exciting, the LDW would consider to be pressure. It's a crucible of sorts. They're faced with a decision between two things they don’t want: ML, or ignore it. They have no desire to ML, so that’s not a good choice, but it’s painfully obvious that their H does want to ML. Choosing to ignore that must cause awareness at some level that they are rejecting their H.

I may be over-generalizing, but I know that’s how my W has reacted. She hasn’t come right out and said it in these exact words, but the clear message from her has been, “Will you stop poking me with that thing. That’s all you ever think of.”

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