Thanks for your replies everyone. As I suspected HDs don't really need toys because we have our imaginations! However... This one looks nice and discrete and probably would be good for the sort of all-over use I have in mind. http://www.goodvibes.com/cgi-bin/sgin0102.exe?FNM=53&T1=1+2+AH+0503&UID=2005062904282382&UREQA=5&UREQB=4&UREQC=3&TRAN85=N I think I will wait for a good oportunity when the mood is right and tell her that I'm going to buy her one. Remember the SuperDave rule #1. Don't ask for things - tell him/her what you are going to do. Example: "Can I buy you a lovely tingly vibrator?". Expected LD answer - "NO WAY!" or "I'm going to buy you a lovely tingly vibrator!". Expected LD answer "No way! (thinks - ohh I hope he has it by next Friday!)" See what I mean? Love to you all, SD