It's so nice to see an oldie return with good news... you have a steady, enjoyable routine happenin'---how great is that! I really like the vibrator idea---seems like W might really like some ( light) fun and surprise (I probably wouldn't say anything beforehand). I will leave it to my more experienced and creative HD sistas on the board here to give you suggestions...recently when I went on vacation my H brought this massage thingy which fit in the palm of his hand; he used it all over my body ( not just " there" ) and it was fun. All the best to you...Hairdog is on vacation; I know he would have liked to stop by on your thread and say hi.
