Well I have been here for 4 months in the Newcomers section. Am struggling a little with where my sitch is. I love all my friends in the section, do not get me wrong, am looking for some advice from those who are or have been in my sitch.
Details: Me 38 W 37 Married 12 years yesterday together 14 3 sons (9, 6, 3)
Bomb dropped 4 + months ago Discovery of her PA 2+ months ago and been working on M since the next morning.
I am struggling with the pain and trust issues that are a result of the whole PA deal. I am deeply in love with my W and ant this M to work. Just stuck in what and how I am doing thigs. KLA 2005 group helping (THX SG) but could also use some other ideas from DBers.
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!
