I think our spouses are using the same playbook. Luckily for me recently a co-worker who is a good friend, was the MLC in his R, has come to me and has given me hope and direction. Like yourself I am just looking for the big break, the big change. Last night we had a small R talk, first in awhile. It seem to have a good outcome. Learned what had been troubling her lately. Something I had done un-intentionaly. Looks like she accepted my apology.
My only words of wisdom is stay tough. That's my approach since I don't give up easy and am not one to walk away. What I keep asking myself is, "what needs to change"? Sitting idle is not my style, cause some change. Wishing you best of luck.
