I decided to start a new post since my sitch has taken a bit of a turn. I just don't know how it's all going to play out.

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Not sure if I got the link right, probably not. I haven't linked anything in a long time, so bear with me!

For those of you who don't know me, I've been here for almost 3 years. I don't post much because the sitch has been running on auto pilot for a long time.

This year has seen my H working at a snail's pace to reconnect with me and the kids. Then about April, H started my little comments about him thinking about coming home. Yeah!? Well, it's almost July, and he hasn't moved back in on a permanent basis. He will come and stay for a few days. Then he'll travel for work and end up back at his place for clothes (he says).

Remember I still do not know exactly where he is living. And at this point really don't care. I've kept from finding out for this long, why snoop now?

We have decided to put our house up for sale. I was the one to bring it up first. I want to live closer to the college I will be starting next year and closer to the area where my parents will be moving to once they sell their house. And if I'm going to move I want to do it now while the kids are still fairly young, S11 and S8. My S11 will start middle school in the fall, and want to make the transition of him from elementary school to middle school and the move all at once.

I will continue this later, I just got a call from the realtor to show my house NOW! Yikes! Gotta go make my bed and straigten up!

To be continued...

JL

Life is not measured in the breaths we take, but in the moments that take our breath away...