When the bomb dropped ex stated: 1. Would be better for our s (we would qualify for state aid!) 2. Single guys just have more fun!
When he filed he stated: 1. I had abandoned him (it was his proposal that I moved out of state, but ok, guilty as charged!) 2. financial problems (medical expenses on our s)
While div proceedings were going on, but we were getting along: 1. I had stated that I would div him! (he mixed up that i would give him the div but that i didn't want it) 2. I wasn't happy enough.
D day: 1. He could never trust me again! (and he had a PA and an EA over the 6 years!) 2. He wanted me to be happy! (ok, div makes me happy!) 3. He didn't know what his feelings were for me. 4. Money issues
I don't know if this has changed now, since I don't plan on asking. He did ask me why we got div a couple months ago. I said I thought it was because of the money problem, he says well div made that worse. (duh!) T
