Poll: What are the reasons for divorce?

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My STBX wants a divorce because he said I cannot follow his sportive activities. He said he learned nothing from me. He works in Paris and sees beautiful and sexy girls, he also blamed me for lousy dressing and I no longer sexually arouse him, he said he liked to change, he doesn't want to feel obliged to stay in the same bed as me. He also add : not in love, grow apart, should have gone much earlier if not for kids, not happy and also blame me as a LAZY house wife bringing nothing to the family, as a financial vampire...

My version : I am starting to grow old and I had breast surgeries, I dress not lousy but casual as I am living in the country side, I contribute nothing in monetary terms but I never over spent, I raise my children 90% of the time on my own as he travels most of the time. My children do very well at school and grow up healthily, I keep a nice house and I do all the housework, tend a garden and keep the animals. I don't work it's not because I am lazy, it's because there is no jobs in such a remoted place.