Initially : You are weird, your momma is weird, your sister is weird, your cousins are weird, you friends are weird. I love you like a brother or a mother, not like a wife. You are nice, but that does not mean that I want to be married to you. I was lonely. You were not a comfort to me.
One year later: It is nobody's fault. Stuff happens.
Two years later: "I have changed." "You have been good for me in many ways, but......". "I dont know how to make it happen."
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.