Kim - I do sound like I am full of it, don't I. I guessed I see him coming home but then on the other hand, he is leaving soon for his new job. I mean on the surface, it would look like he is trying to "escape" OW, but he is also "escaping" from the boys and I. With him being alone in a foreign country, anything can happen.... As it has been said many times on this board, don't worry about things that has not happened....so, I will thought-STOP here, and focus on the POSITIVES and continue with all my DBING.... One thing that I just read is that to act after consciously thinking about something, and not REACT. It's really something that I need to practice. And to VALIDATE, VALIDATE, VALIDATE...
Summary for H's Return: - Agree and Validate - Listen to what H is really saying - Act Consciously, DON'T REACT - Be Happy - Don't talk TOO Much. (Huge 180) - Act "As-IF"
I do sound like I am full of it, don't I. 
