Yoyo stop living up to your name. Gosh girl you are so up & down at the moment. Deep breaths calm down and then act. You are right there is nothing you can do about OW so stop giving it airtime in your head. Its funny isn't it as not so long ago I am sure you were giving me similair advice. That is why these boards are so good as what goes around comes around and everyone gets their chance of being helpful to another. Keep strong Yoyo it could all change again by the next text message....KDU