Kim/glj - Thanks for the advice. Perhaps I will be patient and wait for H to raise the issue. I mean he would have to sort out his bills before he leaves for his new job, and only then I will talk a little about our finances.

Last night, I texted H to apologise for the night before, and about his credit card, and inquired about his flight details. He texted back, and was oblivious to my apology and he asked "sorry for what?". So, he wasn't angry that I woke him up.

Later in the night, he texted again...still inquiring about the apology. I finally replied his text and told him the apology was for waking him up. Also told him about some other stuff about the boys. He returned my text, but I didn't reply.

At 5.00 am this morning, got another text from H. He said that he will sign his contract for his new job this week and will resign on Monday, and that he will talk to me when he gets back. I am a little scared about the talk...What will he say? We are ok? Or that he is still not sure about us? GOSH....

H texted again....he said that he may have to fly to the foreign country immediately after he gets back. Company X wants him there to finalise some details. So, he may not be at S8's birthday party.... (I have to admit that I have a sudden pang that OW may fly there with him... I know I have to stop obsessing with OW doing this or that. The thought just flew in. I am going to visualise something more pleasant now....)

Trying to Stay POSITIVE for ME!!