KDU's advice sounds good...how to bring up financial matters. Better than I did yesterday...though i never harped on how H has been spending his money ( though I wanted to )...I just complained about my own sitch and money, and how H has been eating my food without asking and I'm going into debt just to feed myself and provide supplies for the baby.
H made a comment when he goes out he doesn't blow his money...he nurses one beer for hours ( and thinks about things....you would think that he would think " hey instead of drinking this beer I could buy some diapers", but no ). I know he's not a big drinker but when I see movie ticket stubs ( for 2 people ) lying around the house, new clothes and jewellry...I know he's blowing his money...but never brought that up, just my money problems.
So go with what KDU has said...it sounds like a very gentle way to bring bills up.
