Yoyo I dont have any word of wisdom on that score hopefully someone else does. If H is willing to wait until he gets back then you will have to wait as well. Maybe after that 1st night that I spoke about then the next day if things are still good maybe say something along the lines of. H could we have a chat about our finances as with you moving to your new job soon I would like to get money out of the way now as I am sure you will have enough to deal with when the time comes for you to leave...... That way you are making it sound like it is over the new job but in actual fact you are opening the door for the money discussion, let him talk to you first and listen and then nice and calmly add what you want....like well I would rather not get phone calls about your phone and credit card like I have this past week as I don't know what to say to them....etc etc...Just my idea and trying to do it in DB style. Hopefully somone out there has some good words of advice for you. No I don't think he sounded upset when you rang him probably just tired and annoyed that the phone woke him up. I would just leave that one alone and see what he is like when he rings you next, which I am sure will be when he wakes up....KDU
