See told you.......He is very interested in what he is coming home to....I don't know I have stuffed this myself once b4 remember so I could give you wrong advice now but here goes.....When he gets home have a nice dinner either at home or out but with the boys as they will have missed him and then when boys go to bed well thats private and I know you will do that but maybe after ML you could rub his back or something that he really enjoys or even when you are planning his homecoming dont make it just s#x make it special and sensual so he knows and remembers what he is missing....dont speak about R unless he does and if he does use your DBing skills to the max....think about it Yoyo this I think could be a positive way to make him see what he has been missing out on as before you seem to have been just using each other for s#x so I think make this one special as you obviously still want him back or you wouldn't have been so up and down this past week that he has been away....After the session though it will be DBing all the way, validate him, let him start R talks and then just see......cant wait for him to get back myself now I am curious to see what happens, I am excited for you but take it easy and try not to build up your hopes to high...KDU