Hey as you said H doesn't remember those things well all he knows is it is November so wait until the end of November b4 you get disappointed as as you say if he and you have missed it in the past then I wouldn't worry about it as b4 you had troubles it wasn't a big deal all of the time so don't make it one now. I know its when things are bad that we remember all the dates but truly if it didn't matter all that much b4 don't make it an issue now.....I hope you understand what I am saying....KDU
