Aren't they weird my H and this is similair to what we said over on another thread but my H said I was better at ML and Bj's than OW and I never asked him that question he just came out with it....He has always said that s@x with us has always been good and he finds it hard to resist. Now see your H is away with OW and one would persume he can get whatever he want and yet he is talking to you about pleasuring each other. Go figure that out......They really are from another planet....Knowing you in that dept when H gets home there will be one hot and raunchy session in your bedroom(lol)....KDU
Hey gals - I really don't want to think about H and OW creeping into each others' rooms when they are away on this work trip. Perhaps they did or maybe they didn't?? I want to focus on the positives..that he mentioned about missing my BJs (although missing me would be better...but beggars can't be choosers, so I'll take whatever that's lashed out to me LOL)
H actually IM me a couple of times this morning (my time) but was having a meeting and forgot to set my messenger to "away". When I came back from my meeting, he IMed me again. Had a short IM session. H mentioned about revenues blah blah blah. No R talks. No M talks. Just talked about S5 being a smart @ss at school. And H was like "Wow...so smart!". I did ask him when he was returning back...and he said "think Tuesday". I have to say it was a surprise. I expected it to be like Friday or Saturday. Keeping my fingers crossed that he will be back soon....(that he is not whooshing away on a holiday with OW). H also asked me to call him later tonight, i.e. a wake-up call for him. He is currently 12 hours behind my time. I just have to continue to sound cheerful....
I have a question.... Monday, 25th July 2005. H and I would be together for 18 years. Do I let it go un-noticed, or can I text H and say "For what it's worth, Happy 18 years!". Any feedback?
It may be construed as pursuing, reminding him of your relationship. You have to determine if your relationship is still at a stage where in context it could be seen that way.
Can't help u too much with the anniversary question since I'm in the same boat...our 2nd year marriage anniversary will be on Aug 30th, and I'll probably be in Canada.
NY's advice is good...evaluate your sitch and how H might see a comment like that. I certainly can't say anything near to that as we are in the stage of being physically separated. If i did it would probably come off sounding sarcastic " hey honey...it's been a great 2 years / 6 together..love glj ". Evaluating my stage something more appropriate would be... " it's been nice knowing you, good-bye and good luck!".
Hey i didn't even get a happy birthday wish from H...and that's not something as connected to an R like an anniversary....so when Aug 30th rolls around I'm saying nothing.
okay...i didn't answer your question, just hijacked your thread...oops!
Friday night has been quite positive...H texted 3 times... He said that he can't wait to get back to %^$# me but the most positive was the third text. He said "And I am going to be the only one to see it, nor the butterfly!". This came about from my numerous sarcastic remark "Let's see who is the lucky guy that gets to see my little butterfly, after you leave". H called again Sat AM, still referencing to his text the night before. H called again this morning (Sunday)..and told me to wake him up later (Sunday AM his time). Don't ask me why he can't ask the hotel to provide the morning wake-up call or to set his own mobile phone. But I guessed, it's small baby steps that he is calling me. I am hopeful about all these small positives, but am still cautious. Don't want to be too over-optimistic. Don't want to scare him into retreat... I shall take one day at a time.
One good positive is that he told MIL that he would be back for S8's birthday party!
Who knew that tatoos could have that effect?? Sounds very positve to me but i'm sure you've heard many times to go slow and be cautious...no expectations. Glad to hear that H will be back for S's b-day party.
glj - Yeah..I know that I must tread slowly and not be over the moon about the little positives. I know how bad I can fall.
Got S5 to make the call to wake H up. Had a few words with him. I sounded cheeful. H was sleepy...Sent him three texts about 2 hours ago, with regards to what he asked me to do to ready his return . He replied to two of my texts... the third text, he didn't reply probably he has already met up with his co-workers by then. So far, H did call everyday. We've also had IM sessions other than these 2 days (weekends, I am not normally log-in). I am hopeful, with fingers crossed that everything will be better when he gets home. But I know I have to not have too high an expectation... I will try to keep my PMA and GAL going...
Speaking of GAL, made 10 light sabres for S8's birthday party. Think need to make a few more. Went to a night market, bought some "Star Wars" stickers too...
(although missing me would be better...but beggars can't be choosers, so I'll take whatever that's lashed out to me LOL) 
probably he has already met up with his co-workers by then. So far, H did call everyday. We've also had IM sessions other than these 2 days (weekends, I am not normally log-in). I am hopeful, with fingers crossed that everything will be better when he gets home. But I know I have to not have too high an expectation... I will try to keep my PMA and GAL going...