Hey Yoyo I meant when H was away at new job not away this time I know he is with OW.....Anyway I think we are both on the same track yes he will have time to think when he is at the new job as OW wont be there and he might just miss you and the boys even more and realise what he may be giving up. Keep Dbing and time will tell. Live life for you and boys at the moment.....KDU