glj - Yes..I know that I have been yoyo-ing alot. Agree with you that he is using DBING on me...with his going away and being DARK. H has just IM-ed me. It's a good IM session. No mention about our R or state of our M, except for one part : H: You better check the semester at the international school Me: I told the boys that u will be back for visit, and they could visit you weekends H: I know..no point checking if I am still in limbo..rite?
I didn't acknowledge his comment about being in limbo. I changed the subject about my bosses being away today. I don't think I am ready to address issues about us either.
Well, my dad know about our sitch because my mom told him about it. It got to the point that the whole world knew about our sitch except my dear ole dad. When I was feeling terrible on Tuesday, my silly ole dad just said "Maybe you should have one or two affairs of your own!". I was "huh??? You raised me too well to do such a thing!" Anyway, apparently dad gave a short lecture to H the last time. But H just kept quiet. I still don't know what my H is thinking. As it seems by his own admittance, he is still in limbo. He is sure that he is taking the overseas job. Hopefully, his mind would be UNMUSHED when he moves outside the realm of the OW. I am trying to think POSITIVE!!
