Yoyo to use your advice stop obsessing over OW you cannot do anything about it so do not give it your energy and you have no idea what they are doing so don't think about. I know easier said than done but you are the big advocate on not giving the OW our time, thoughts or space so this is a friendly foot up the bottom and saying practise what you preach goddess. Don't backslide you have been doing very very well for a while now dont allow H to see you go back to your old ways. Your new ways had been working you will just push him closer to OW and he is away for 2 weeks make him miss you.......Hope this puts you on track again as you were doing wonderfully well. KDU
