NYS/KDK - Thanks for the support and advice.

I think I may have backslid a wee bit. When he called, I was like "What time is it now over there? Where exactly are you? X? I thought it would 15 hours behind our time. Only 13 hours? blah blah blah", AND I texted him and asked about the buying groceries bit and asked if he was staying in a hotel. I know I know! Not DBING but what to do, what is done is done! Just have to stop digging the hole deeper. I am trying to crawl out of the hole now!! Anyway, H said he'll call me tomorrow. I'll see how it goes.