Thanks girls - I will take your advice and not mention about the apartment/house until he asks for my opinion. As it happens, H just called me and I let him speak to the boys. And when I spoke to him, he just said that there is a big typhoon over in Taiwan, and most of his coworkers are not able to fly over from Asia to the states. And he mentioned that he is buying groceries (?? when he is staying in a hotel?? I hate to say it, but my mind is whizzing all over the place. Yucks! Is he playing house with OW? GOSH! I know.. I know..STOP ASSuming!!). This waiting game is quite sh!tty!! He is definitely going overseas to work as I am going to send off his documents over to his new company to get the work permit going. I really have to keep my composure... Later..