Hey Yoyo sorry you are feeling so unsure of yourself but it would be silly if you felt any other way as H is giving you mixed signals. As Anna says it is probably because he is confused himself. You have been doing so well lately just keep doing what you have been doing it is working even if you can't see it. I think H may be looking for a signal from you to let him know what you are thinking but maybe when he comes back if he mentions new job and place to live just say to him well I don't know what you want so when you have made a decision about whether you want the boys and I to join you sit me down and we will have a chat and discuss it and our option until you have made up your mind about what you would like to happen I am not going to answer your questions. I just feel this isn't shutting the door in his face but it is still self preserving at the same time and make him share his feeling first....Just a thought might not be the right one though but I feel you are stronger each day and will make the right decision. No backsliding for Yoyo so you go girl....DKD
