glj - Thanks for your two cents... I guessed it was just upsetting to be proven right in this case. Anyway, that happened more than 3 weeks ago, and definitely will not bring it up now or hopefully ever. It will just create World War 3 and stir up the "and to think that I was gonna work on our M? I might as well go to OW". So, I guessed in true DBING, I will bury the incident and let it RIP.

H texted me again this morning at 5.30 am!!! To tell me that he is in transit and catching another flight and he would call me when he reached his destination around noon time (my time). And asked about the boys. BUT, at 7.30 am, he called to tell me that he is going to catch his flight soon. I was certainly half-asleep, all I could manage was "Uh uh..we are all still asleep. Err Ok Ok. Bye" Anyway, I did text him when I was more awake . Told him that boys are fine and we are busy with S8's birthday party plans. And his mom visited the boys yesterday and also gave me his late grandma's pearl ring and that we are going out with some friends today.. (show him that life doesn't stop in his absence ?? ) No, he hasn't got the text yet. He didn't call when he arrived. Perhaps he was too tired? I don't know...and shouldn't bother as to why he didn't call.

I have a question..although H has not outrightly ask us to join him. BUT do you think I should OFFER to lend an eye when he picks an apartment/house? Or not say anything about it, and let him sort out everything? Can I suggest that he should get something with a pool so that when the boys visit, they can splash around? What do you guys think? My friend seems to think that I shouldn't mention it at all....

Trying to Stay POSITIVE