Anna - I think you may be right there. I think he is not very committed, and whenever I outrightly ask him if we were joining him, he does seem like he tries to avoid saying an outright YES and more of refuting the idea. But whenever I do NOT say anything about joining, he seems to bring it up himself like "maybe you and the boys can join later". I think for the time being, I am just gonna let it be and let him take the lead. I will just take one day at a time.
I have to say that I was quite depressed last night (Friday night). As I mentioned in my previous post, H asked me to do send some documentation for him for his work permit, and one of the "documents" was photocopy of ALL pages of his passport. I wasn't snooping, but the docs were there and I couldn't help myself and looked. And it CONFIRMED what I already knew..that he spent his birthday with OW!!! He didn't fly off on his birthday as he claimed. He only left the country the next day. I mean I knew he lied, but to have confirmation stare at my face was quite devastating (That's why we shouldn't LOOK/SNOOP at all - fellow Sister Goddesses...we only hurt ourselves. I s
