Hey...H just called me and told me to DO some chores for him for his NEW job. Pick up his photos, go to the post office to send the documents to Company X blah blah blah. AND the other thing that he said was "They also ask for your info and the boys. Up to you if you want to give them". WHAT do you make of that??? Is it that it is UP to me to follow him or not? Or what? He was just saying that we won't follow him this morning... I am really confused by what he is trying to project to me. ???

I am not sure if he is gonna miss me The OW will be there on the work trip too. Perhaps he will be having so much fun that I am OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND?? Okay okay..I have to stop wondering or I will go insane! I better concentrate on S8's birthday party...he will be turning 8 and he wants to have a "Star Wars Party". Initially, he wanted to have 7 friends over...but over time, the list grew to 21 friends...and the last I heard was 25 friends... So, will be busy with party planning whilst H is away...

WIth regards to this new job...I guessed it's the only way to be physically away from OW? I mean if remains where he is today, he will be seeing OW everyday, and have to work with her. It is rather difficult to break-off?? I know the mind should be stronger than the heart..but I don't think H is that strong to do it whilst still working in the same company. Also, the offer from Company X is really very good. Too good to decline. I guessed even if our R doesn't mend...at least our financial sitch will improve. I am still entitled to whatever he earns... I did tell the kids that even if we don't follow, dad could come back weekends or we could go... Well, anyways, we'll see..

TAKING ONE DAY AT A TIME....