Dear fellow sister goddesses... Not as much action as you all think ...more about that later....

Yesterday (Thursday), H called about noon to inquired what time I will be back from my trip. We had a very very short convo about this.
At about 4.30 pm, H called again (I wasactually in a meeting, but took the call anyway....I know I shouldn't but it has been so rare lately that H calls me) and told me about the offer from Company X, which was an offer that he couldn't refuse. He then asked "or you don't want me to go?" to which I answered "Go....it's up to you". We talked alittle bit more about the tax in that foreign country..blah blah blah.
At 5.30 pm, H texted me again...on his offer from Company X.
At 8.30 pm, H called me again..I was on the road and he asked if I had dinner blah blah blah, and if I could get some take-away for him.
I reached home about 9.30 pm, H ate and then asked me to get him some money from the bank...and we went to the bank together, when we came back, I thought I was gonna get some.. since he is leaving today for his worktrip of TWO weeks. Gosh..was I disappointed
H: No..I am tired. What are you gonna do if we really go on our separate ways? Get you a cucumber?
Me: Well, I don't have to...I just have to go out and find some guy...I am sure it won't be difficult.
H: Get a toy boy?
Me: Mmm...maybe but not really toy boy toy boy...don't fancy too young... (this convo went on for awhile.. and then I went to have my shower and H came in and commented on my butterfly tattoo...)
H: So,...see who is the lucky guy that gets to see it?
Me: Yeah! I feel really sexy with it.
H: (Grinning away)... Who took you to do it?
Me: Friends
H: C? J? Workmates? Who?
Me: Friends....you don't know them...
Well...still didn't get any action H was tidying his work to leave for his trip today... Asked me to help him sort out his cc fraud, and gave me his atm card (wow...he hasn't given me his atm card for eons... Is this a good sign? Normally, he will insist that he takes money out for me) I went to bed alone...

Next morning, i.e today, H had a short convo with S8;
H: Remember I told you that dad will work somewhere else? Do you want to go to school here or over there?
S8: Err... I don't know. Maybe here, and I come over and see you over the holidays... cause I have my PS2 here.
H: That's not a good excuse..I can buy a PS2 over there... blah blah blah...

Our convo -
Me: Are you getting a furnished or unfurnished place?
H: Furnished...you all probably will not come over( he doesn't want us there? )
Me: (Quiet...)
H: I am going to give the letter when I come back from my two week trip. That will shock them...(grin)
Me: When are you gonna start?
H: Probably 1st week September, but Company X wants me to start in Aug, but I told them that would be difficult.
Me: End Aug would be nice, then boys can go and be with you...school holidays ...at least they will see that daddy is really working, not abandoning them...
H: August a bit difficult. I have to tidy up stuff for my present company. Probably September.
Then he got ready and dashed off from the house saying he is late for his meeting..and said "Bye...see you in two weeks!" No hugs, no kisses..no real byes!

What do you make of that? Positives and Negatives on the same page!!! Could the negatives not really negatives? I am hopeful but cautious.

Trying to Stay POSITIVE!!!!