Hey YOYO - Just letting you know I am still around and am watching what is happening in your sitch. I think you have received much the same advise as I would give but just know alot of us feel the same way about DBing but I think it is for the greater good. It does put us out of our comfort zone but I think we have to keep working until DBing all of the time feels comfortable as our life will be better with or without H. I guess we would worry less in the end and learn that we have no control over other's behaviour. Sounds like I have it all figured but I don't that's what I think today doesn't mean I can live it although know I am trying. Here's cheers to you Yoyo to continue to have the patience....Kim
