Hi! I know that I need to GAL and PMA. That part, I am sure that I need to do. What I am unsure of is: - Is living day-to-day (happily, not sulking) part of DBing? - Is taking things as "normal" part of DBing? - Is not mentioning about H leaving, part of DBing? - Is waiting (quietly, not voiced out to H) for H to choose either the family or OW, part of DBing?
My H is still living at home. Coming home every night (except when he says he needs to go out-of-state). I still get ready his vitamins and such. We still ML. We still talk. We still do things with the kids. BUT...the BIG BUT is that he says he wants to leave home to think what he wants to do, who he wants to be with at the end of the day (Family or OW). Basically, he wants to separate for awhile. The reason that he is holding back is that I said that the kids would know about it, and it would mean the end... So, he is looking for an overseas job to be ALONE. I am not too sure if I am still DBing, or if DBing would work with him thousands of miles away...
