Ohio - Thanks for the feedback. I know that giving ZERO pressure and not saying things about the R is part of the DBING principles. But sometimes I feel that by doing those things, I am not doing anything. It feels really weird..like I am in a twilight zone void. The whole DBing idea is very opposite of normal human reaction, and that is why the weird feelings arising when I am trying to adhere to DBing ways, i.e. not doing anything, not saying anything about the R. I sound that I am babbling, but can't really seem to be able to put these things in words. GOSH... Wished I was nearer to you guys, and at least I can reach out to you all and give you a BIG Hug...you guys who are DBing for your WAWs...

I really have to adhere to my zipping of the lips business and throwing away the key...