Quote: So, I really have to zip my lips and throw away the key...Oh...H said that OW is not pressuring him to leave his family. (mmmmm... Anybody has any experience about this? Will OW eventually pressure? Or are they contented to be the OW for a long long time?? Any responses anyone??)
This is typical OM/OW behavior. It's a narcissist trait. Think about it. This is the most zero pressure statement OM/OW can make. ‘It’s your decision’. Draws WAH/WAW closer in, making them think that LBS is pressuring them while OM/OW is leading them to believe that WAH/WAW is making the decision. I’d recommend ZERO pressure here. That is what they are getting from OM/OW.
