I know what I want to do, i.e. which is to adhere to the DBing Principles. I hear so many ppl telling me to dump him - I am ignoring them; BUT I think that being human, I sometimes need to hear from ppl that I am in-fact doing the right thing of sticking it out. Just some reassurances. BUT I am lucky in the sense that those ppl that ask me to dump him are normally ppl that I would not REALLY listen to. My key advisers (mentor, my boss, my mom) all are very supportive in my decision and have repeated assured me that I am doing the right thing in perservering.
Journalling... H just called me a while ago...told me that he had made a dental appointment for H for the 3rd of September...(I know..long time...but his cousin is quite a popular dentist. Plus he says that my son's "alien" tooth needs to grow out a little more first before a grip can be made on the tooth) and H mentioned that WE can drive there the night before for S8's dental appt at 9 am. (Mmmmm..not analyzing..but i guessed whatever happens, WE are still the boys' parents!!)
As for his interview...H mentioned that the company would be sending him a "letter of offer" on Wednesday but he doesn't know the offer yet... We'll see...
Oh..one thing that I failed to mention...H and I had a meal together at home last Thursday... and H asked whether if it crossed my mind that if he leaves, he would crawl back to me. I have to admit to him that it did cross my mind.
And yesterday, while we were ML; stupid H actually commented that "You may think that I consistently have sex with OW, but I don't". Hello??? This was when we were actually WHILE doing it. I said "This is not the right time to tell your wife this, isn't it? So, shut up!". GOSH... is brain is certainly MUSHED!!!
