I thought I lost you...couldn't find your new thread ( I'm on a new one too...Trying to stay positive--for me )
Your H is being such an a$$...one minute telling you he's leaving, and then telling you he doesn't know. I like how he got freaked when you said that you'll have to tell your father sooner or later about your sitch...that got him panicking ( my father knows and I think my H hates that he does...men are less forgiving when their daughters have been hurt ).
I'm glad that you are rising above the madness and confusion and your responses to your H have been very good.
My H has shown me some positives, though subtle, but he's not verbally coming out saying the things your H is saying...like that he cares about me, specifically saying ' I don't know what I want '. My H hasn't done that now for 3 weeks b/c there have been no R talks. But what he does still talk about is me leaving with the baby...which is depressing. So this is what he talks about with me verbally, but the positives are not so verbal ( spending a little more time at home, helping with the baby, joking around with me, the only verbal comments that slipped out of his mouth have been 'honey and sweetie' and complimenting me on how I look...the words like honey haven't been said by him in months, but have also tapered off again ). he talks a lot about the baby with me...if I have any regrets that we have him in our life now, how beautiful he is, etc..
So I'm in limbo once again...seeing progress but it's moving slowly, countered by depressing talk about me leaving. But I'm not reacting, staying pleasant...mostly for me. And I'm glad that you seem to be doing the same.
