hellkat - I agree with you about the games part. Although H may not know that he is playing games in his conscious mind, he is indeed playing games with me. I did tell him that he can do whatever he wants to do while still living in our marital home, but just don't f$#k with my heart. Which he got upset. He doesn't like it if I say I love him and want him to stay blah blah blah, and he doesn't like it if I totally don't want to have any feelings for him. I can't win. I am so fed-up, I am not going to waste my energy on him. He can go one doing whatever he wants... I am just gonna continue on with my life.
As for the ML...As per my previous posts...I am using him too!!! LOL But once he leaves home, then ML with him would have to stop...I will go out and search forth for a new model...ha ha ha LOL