H: If our sitch becomes rat sh%t, can I still date you in years to come? Me: Why would I want to date someone who doesn't care about my feelings or his children's wellbeing? Besides, if you go off, means you will be with OW, and there would be no future for a US.
H: Maybe I will come to my senses and think how stupid I was?
Me: By then, we would have lead stable lives and I don't think it would be a good idea to put boys into turmoil


Good for you!!!!!

and he initiated and we did ML.

not even gonna go there with ya! lol..........only cos I've been there done that too.

he started telling me that he doesn't want to give me so much $$ for kids' maintenance and that I am using the boys to get to him...blah blah blah

ok like he's not using that excuse to get to you????? I hate when mine starts that mess 'I just wont pay you! whah!' so many games!

hang tight girly!