Sorry to hear things turned for the bad. WTF is up with our Hs? It sounds like your are turning a negative into a positive for yourself and your boys. It's good that you have your MIL on your side. Love your mini-goals and sounds like you are going to have a good time.
So happy that you finally got your tatt. I'm thinking about getting a new one for myself.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years