Hey Kim,

Well, he saw the tattoo yesterday when we ML. He sort of kept quiet when I made the comment about the lucky guys who get to see it. Geez...these men are so undecisive..and confused...GOSH...

Now with my focus switching back to me and the boys, I am having problems defining my mini-goals. Prior to last weekend, my mini-goals all centred around H. Now, I am not too sure how to define my mini-goals...Sure, I am GAL for myself. Going ahead with a dinner with my MIL/SIL tomorrow night. Informed H about the dinner and he said he will be there. Pre-last weekend, I would have stated "H attending dinner with MIL/SIL" as my mini-goal. But I can't do that now, right? That wouldn't be focussing on myself...So, I am rewording...

1) Tuesday: Having a fun night with MIL/SIL and boys (MIL paying...goody!)
2) Wednesday: Company dinner at a cosy restaurant. Will socialise with foreign co-workers. Flirt. Have fun! (Company paying...goody!)
3) Thursday: Bowling Outing with co-workers after work. Show-off my bowling skills....(Boss paying. Goody!!)
4) Saturday: Mental and physical wellbeing at YOGA.
5) Saturday: Lunch with girlfriends...

SO...this week, mini-goals of GAL are achievable!

p/s Tattoo....sisters chipping-in to pay for it...as my early birthday present. Goody....

H has been really slack in paying me the household $$$. He is still in the house and I don't see the dough. Can you imagine the hassle when he has moved out?? Gosh..really need to get a GOOD L.

One Day at a Time....