RE: heartfocus


Where at did I say I was bipolar?



(see Lil's post) Thanks Lil. Good to see you pop in.



believe it or not, there are "women" out there who will go for anything as long as they can sit on a Harley. Including old, fat, grey-haired men



heartfocus, does this work on wives too? Does it have to be a Harley or would a Gold Wing work? Sorry just trying to have some fun. BTW, I might be a little like your H but no Harley or other pricey toys.

You mentioned you might get critisized for being pro-active before some OW bedded your H. Hay, being pro-active is what more W's/H's need to do. Work on the problems before the S gives up.

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When I ask him whats wrong he says he is physically frustrated.



Get him to talk about this more and "DON"T" counter his statements with any but's or when's of if's. Just listen. If you keep quiet it does not mean he is right.
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Is it possible that a 60 yr old man could be as frustrated as a young man?



Anything that can happen to a young person, male or female, can happen to an older person. My belief and observations from several college classes I was in it that we are just older kids at heart.

I heard this statement many times in college. (I was an older student)

"Whern I grow up I want to ____________."

I heard it about as often from the 20"s age group as I heard it from the late 40/50's age group. I even heard it from one guy that was 68. The big difference between the 20's and the 40/50's groups was the older group drank less beer, did more homework, and had about a one+ point higher G.P.A.

Keep posting heartfocus. Lots of good folks here.

Lou, going on 35 myself.