Where at did I say I was bipolar? I take lithium, and Wellbrutin, which does pretty well at controlling things. My sleep disorder affects our relationship more than that. I have Delayed Phase Sleep Syndrome, which has gotten worse over the years. Have gone to sleep clinics and cannot get the doctors to agree on how to treat it. My husband is a morning person. I have friends who have this odd sleep disorder, and it's a huge strain on their marriage as well.
P.S. I forgot to say that the reason why I say, "Let him out" was explained in my other threads. He is passive-aggressive and his mode is to give the impression to me (and all his friends) that he is miserably unhappy, but he will not express it due to fear of being blamed. He has a severe "blame phobia" from his first and second marriages. He will never ask me for a divorce, no matter what, he will just act miserable and wait for me to offer it to him.