Hi Swimmer, sorry it took so long for me to respond. I recently moved to Surviving the Big D. While I was thinking about how to attract my XW back, she was getting married! Yup, she waited the obligatory 60 days and married the guy who's name was mentioned to me by an anonymous caller back in April. The guy is from Toledo, OH and he moved down just before Thanksgiving, bought a house in the same town our house was in. They went to the gulf over Thanksgiving, sort of a honeymoon and took the kids.
Kind of knocked me for a loop but I'm getting back to normal again.