I'm sorry about the house. That stinks! I feel sorry for all of you, and it seems like no one really wanted that to happen.
You have a great attitude right now toward your XW, including giving her space and doing well with distance. I'm taking notes from you! Baking her up even when she's not present (kid's whining about her) and coaching your son about how to help her is golden. Nicely done! I like WCW's advice about setting up new traditions and helping the kids learn from you in terms of coping.
