Thanks Kevin, I know I'm in good company on this forum.
Realizing that I can't stop the D and if I let it go to trial I'll get gutted by the lady judge I asked the W to discuss the finances with me. We talked pleasantly for about an hour and come up with an outline that I can live with. I'm going to drag my attorney in to discuss it with hers and we are going to come up with an agreement that we can present in court. Dragging this out will not change the outcome and just cost both of us more $$.
I'll continue DB'ing and be looking for advice on how to win her back after a cooling off period. And I'll spend as much time with my kids as possible. I just really dread the day I move. We haven't told them about my being ordered out and I really don't know how to approach it. This part will really suck
