Came home from work and W managed to turn her Ice Queen temperature control to absolute zero! I mean I got "the look" from the moment I walked in the door.
I expect she heard from her attorney today. And on top of that it came out while I was cooking dinner that she failed her drug test at her new job! Her doctor will intervene...she is on medication for her ulcer and some complication from the gallbladder surgery etc. He warned her it might show up in a drug test and to have the company call him and he would straighten it out. But it still pi$$ed her off and, of course, she vented on me. No problem; I had just come from the gym and made supper in my stinking gym clothes. I had worked out all of my frustrations so she couldn't rile me. I validated and, while things were cooking, hit the shower.
She's over at her mom's right now, venting on that poor dear. Some on this BB have raised the question, if she came back now, would you want her? Well, she hasn't left yet, but yes, if she is willing to work on our R. If she wants to just vent on me daily, she can move out and I'll take care of the kids. I love her dearly, but martyrdom(sp?) was never my style.