Yeah, houses are just things. Unfortunately my W has an inflated opinion of my income and/or a nieve opinion of our bills. The way the Pendente Lite letter reads, I'm expected to move while continuing to pay all bills. I'll be living in a cardboard box on Main St. with the rest of the homeless if that goes through.
But in the midst of this turmoil I realized that I had stopped DB'ing and was letting this latest grenade from her get me off track. I was back on my game last night, making supper and playing with the kids etc. She sat on the couch an stared at the TV for the evening.
I have a meeting scheduled with my lawyer next Monday. Since her mother lives just a few minutes away, my suggestion is that she move in with her mom if I'm stressing her. She is the one who wants a D and has refused to even attempt to work on our R. I don't deny that it is her right to make that choice, but the consequences should be hers as well. I know that I'm fighting an uphill battle, but I guess we all have to tilt at a windmill once in a while. Keeps the armor shiny.
Until Monday I'll be keeping a low profile and working on my GAL and 180's. I've gotten most of my initial goals under control and seem to have plateaued. Need to come up with more goals.
