la_esperanza, No, they didn't file the D, it is a no-contest kind of thing and they were giving me 5 working days to respond before they began working on a complaint.
She was very subdued when I got home after work. We ended up having a 2 hour convo, going down the same old paths. The very same things I admitted/validated repeatedly in the past came up again. Bottom line, she isn't interested in MC or C of any kind. The only positive thing to come out of the convo was that she agrees that she can't pursue the D until she finds a job. Times are tough in this area. She works in the medical field and she said "no one wants someone in the midst of a divorce and everyone in the field knows about us." My response that we weren't divorced yet just drew a smirk.
It seems she is determined to maintain her depression. She says there is no way things will ever work out for us and a C can't help. She says she "is dead inside" and feels nothing for me. Time for LRT I guess. Have to think it through and figure out what to do.
