Thanks for the posts and the good advice. You both are right in that I really haven't given up. I'm too stubborn for that I suppose.
I probably add to her confusion because with each step she takes towards D, I react and then quickly return to DB'ing. When she handed me the copy of the paperwork her lawyer prepared I told her I would discuss them with my lawyer. I will see him Friday afternoon. One of the things I may suggest is exactly what Wes mentioned: she wants the D, let her move out. But in the end, regardless who lives in our house and who doesn't, I'll miss her and be anxious about what she is doing. I'm rambling and have much more thinking to do. She had me believing we were making progress up until Tuesday night.
