I used to post under a different name (allmyfault) before but recently decided it was too self-defeating so here's a new name and a new thread.
I am not sure whether I want to link up my previous thread - so we'll see.
Anyway, H and I had several chats over the past week. Basically he emphatically maintains that:
he has stopped the A he really wants to work on our M he will do anything I ask
So far, he has come clean about the A - everything I've asked he has responded to - before he would get angry. He has started talking to me, coming home early, giving me hugs, speaking really nicely etc.
I would love to buy into all of this. But, a huge part of me is really skeptical. Besides he is leaving for his country in a few days time - will he be able to resist the temptation of calling her? He has been unable to give up cigarettes so far!
For my part my goals for now are:
* learn how to validate H * continue to GAL * identify specific DB oriented goals
I also am hoping that the change of name will encourage more people to respond to my posts. Hint: please post
