Quote: My brain and heart are in total mayhem tonight.
I assume your H has dropped the D bomb on you. You haven't posted any details about your sich, but now is the time, and here is the place. Choc started this thread just for you. You could learn something helpful, or get a little needed perspective.
It sounds to me like your H has not been happy for a while and has just made up his mind all of a sudden to call it quits, is that right?
Anyway, if you would rather just lurk, you might also check out the Newcomer's board, which is really excellent for "Oh, cr*p, what do I do now?" kind of advice. www.marriagebuilders.com is also really good.
The only good advice I can give you, is if you really care about your marriage, be the best wife you can be, even with your H walking out the door.
Take care,
SM
"If we will be quiet and ready enough, we shall find compensation in every disappointment." Henry David Thoreau
