Quote: You described quite a bit of my H as well...at least when it comes to physical affection. It's not that he won't do it or doesn't want to do it.....it's more like he simply forgets to do it.....if I ask, he's more than happy to comply. To his credit though, he's doing much better about remembering
That's great! I think what happens, when a disconnect has occurred, is that our spouse may remember our "need", but by then intimate conversation (h*ll, skip intimate, any *personal* conversation) of any type is so strained that they can't find a "good" time to say it.
I know when we were still struggling, there would be times when I was cognizant of what would be something that would please him, but things were so stilted between us, that I didn't get it out. Another opportunity missed, another failure, another pain added, and another day of disconnect.
That's great! I think what happens, when a disconnect has occurred, is that our spouse may remember our "need", but by then intimate conversation (h*ll, skip intimate, any *personal* conversation) of any type is so strained that they can't find a "good" time to say it.
